4 Relationships Every 20-Something Should Invest In
We often take for granted what we already have, and exhaust our energy over things that we don’t. Even though they might not bring us what we actually need.
View ArticleHow To Be Okay When They Decide You’re Not ‘The One’
When someone decides you’re not the one for them, don’t argue with them.
View Article‘This Too Shall Pass’ And Other Reminders That Have Helped Me Cope With...
There’s no need to rush. Life’s not a competition.
View ArticleThis Is How Each Attachment Style Finally Falls In Love
Whether it's secure, anxious-ambivalent, anxious-avoidant, or disorganized attachment, each group comes with its own pros and cons.
View ArticleYou Don’t Determine My Happiness Anymore
You don’t determine my happiness anymore because you’re not supposed to determine my happiness. Ever. No one is, except for myself.
View ArticleIn 2019, I Hope You’ll Stop Waiting For Your Life To Begin
From now till the end of life, please make it worthwhile.
View ArticleHow To Decide That Being Yourself Is Enough
You decide being yourself is enough when you’re done seeking approval from others and learn the hard way that no one can do this for you except you.
View ArticleWhy You Should Stop Looking For Love And Start Building Yourself
People don’t love you for the emotional energy you put in the relationship; they love you for who you are.
View ArticleHow To Open Yourself To Love When It Feels Like You’ve Been Hurt Too Many Times
Getting hurt many times can make you lose faith in love, but not all relationships hurt you — only the bad ones do.
View ArticleDarling, Please Follow Your Softness
To all the soft souls out there, I see you. I know it hasn’t been easy, because you think so much and feel so much. Your big, big heart always breaks faster than it heals. You think your guard is high...
View ArticleThis Is How Each Attachment Style Finally Falls In Love
Attachment style is one of the most common and well-studied indicators of romantic success. Whether it’s secure, anxious-ambivalent, anxious-avoidant, or disorganized attachment, each group comes with...
View ArticleYou Don’t Determine My Happiness Anymore
Aditya Saxena / Unsplash Your good morning texts used to have the power to make my day. A simple smiley emoji at 8 a.m. could turn all my negative thoughts into glitter as my worth was validated by the...
View ArticleIn 2019, I Hope You’ll Stop Waiting For Your Life To Begin
In 2019, I hope you’ll stop waiting for someone to come to make things better. You’ll stop waiting to be discovered. Instead, you will take action for yourself. You will be loud, be bold, be...
View ArticleHow To Decide That Being Yourself Is Enough
How do you decide that being yourself is enough? Honestly? You just do. You do it after trying to change yourself in every way possible, hoping to finally be deserving of someone’s full love yet...
View ArticleWhy You Should Stop Looking For Love And Start Building Yourself
You think love is hard. But love is easy. Love is the easiest. Building your life is hard. Focusing on yourself and creating a world from which you don’t want to escape is hard. Speaking of which, an...
View ArticleHow To Open Yourself To Love When It Feels Like You’ve Been Hurt Too Many Times
Like everyone out there, I’ve tried my luck at love and I’ve been hurt many times. I could’ve shut myself off and bitterly sworn to be alone forever, but I understand the importance of having good...
View ArticleDarling, Please Follow Your Softness
To all the soft souls out there, I see you. I know it hasn’t been easy, because you think so much and feel so much. Your big, big heart always breaks faster than it heals. You think your guard is high...
View ArticleFalse Intimacy Is Exhausting And I’m Over It
False intimacy is when a guy pays me a lot of attention just based on my online profile with two pictures and an Instagram feed. False intimacy is when a guy claims to like me yet all he does is talk...
View Article10 Foolproof Steps For Healing A Shattered Heart
Breakups are hard. If you’re going through one right now, I feel you. I understand you must be feeling hurt and lost and millions of other terrible emotions right now; the ground beneath you seems like...
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